29 Reasons Why I Love You, Chinwendu ❤️

Your Heart - I’m constantly in awe of the depth of your compassion. You care so deeply for people, even when their situations have nothing to do with you. You feel their pain, their joy, their struggles, as if they were your own. The way you forgive, time and time again, even when it’s not required or deserved, shows the boundless grace within you.

You have a genuine desire to be the best friend, sister, and partner you can be. There’s not a shred of wickedness in you; your soul illuminates goodness and kindness. I see the love you give, even when it’s hard, even when it costs you. That kind of love is rare, and it’s one of the most beautiful things about you.

Your Strength - You are truly one of my greatest heroes. What you’ve had to overcome is nothing short of remarkable. Many people would have succumbed to the weight of everything you’ve faced, but you’ve chosen to rise above it all and become the best version of yourself every single day.

I see you grind everyday, always finding a way to push forward. You don’t even know how to chill lol, but you never waver, no matter how hard things get. Your resilience and determination remind me so much of my mother. That’s why I vow to always take care of you, to be your support, and to lighten the load you carry. You deserve that and so much more. ❤️

Your Wittiness - I love how witty you are lol. You keep me on my toes and keep me sharp. When I have something smart to say you always have something smarter to say lol. I think that is so attractive because you show you know how to handle me and it shows you won’t back down to anything. That’s the type of person I trust to have my back in this thing called life

I Trust You - You know this was a hard one for me. You’ve shown time and time again you have my best interest at heart. I know you have my back. With me knowing that, it helps me show up in this relationship better. I’ve learned that you are on my team and I move from that place now. Thank you for teaching me that

Your Smile - I absolutely love making you smile and laugh every single day, it’s one of the greatest joys of my life. Seeing the pleasure on your face fills me with so much happiness, and I often find myself doing little things just to see you smile

Making you laugh is my daily goal because I believe laughter is the ultimate medicine. It has the power to heal, to lighten the heaviest burdens, and to bring joy to even the toughest moments. If I can make you laugh, even for a second, I know I’ve helped ease any pain or stress you might be carrying that day. Your laughter is my favorite sound, and I’ll keep chasing it every day.

My Motivator - You instill that battery in my back. I work everyday to impress you and make you proud. I want to reassure you that you made the greatest decision by choosing me. I want to be your GOAT lol

Family - You and your family renewed my view of family. I love talking to your siblings and being an elder brother to them. I only met your parents twice and I already see them as my own parents and ready to honor and respect them. I also look forward to starting are own family. We will have a beautiful and healthy marriage. We will also have a beautiful and healthy children in Jesus’s name!

Your Faith - One of the most beautiful things about our relationship is that I watched your faith in Christ grow. I remember when we first started reading the bible you didn’t know certain things. You saw your relationship with God differently. You didn’t think you were good enough to lead bible study. Now, I see how you’re so bold in Christ. You understand the woman God has called you to be and you walk in that so beautifully. I’m super proud of you.

You’re Kinda Funny 🙄 - You’re funny sometimes. The end

You Keep Me Accountable - I hate letting you down. I know the expectations you have for me and those things are tatted on my heart. When I don’t you’re not scared to call me out. The type of man that I am and want to be, I really need that. I will always hear you (it may take longer than expected because I am hard headed), but I always come around.

Your Beauty - I think you’re so fine and sexy lol. My heart beats fast every time I look into those eyes of yours. I love showing you off because you are the prize and I’m proud when a stranger comes to you and is in awe of your beauty. I can’t wait to use your genes to make kids lol

Your Humility - I’ve seen you become so humble in our relationship. That’s how I knew you were really invested in this. You recognized you had to be humble for us to work. I recognize the work you’ve done on yourself for us. This is why I will never let you suffer, you’ve sacrificed for me

Your Grace - I’m man enough to admit that I’ve messed up in this a couple of times. I know how hard that was for you but you love/loved me so much you continued to give me grace. You chose me every single time and that means the world to me.

Your Dependability - I can depend on you for everything. You’ll be the first person I’ll call in any situation. You are truly my partner and there’s nothing I wouldn’t involve you in.

Your Delusion LOL - I think your delusions are cute sometimes lol. You’re such a dreamer and visionary. I really admire that about you. This is why I encourage everything you say because I believe God put that particular dream/vision on your heart for a reason. I will always water that seed for you and I think the sky is the limit for you.

Your Ability To Listen - Anytime I have something on my chest/I need to talk or we have an issue. You always want to hear me. You always want to find a solution to either fix my thing or fix our thing. That is the ultimate form of caring to me.

You’re Inviting - One of the things I cherish most about this relationship is the way you trust me so deeply that you invite me into your world every single day. Whether it’s asking my opinion on what you should wear, sharing the big decisions you’re contemplating, or even just letting me in on what you’re thinking about eating lol, it all means so much to me.

I love that you trust me enough to make me a part of your world in these ways. It’s a constant reminder of how connected we are, and it fills me with happiness every time.

You Call Me Babe LOL - I know how disgusting that makes you feel lol but it makes me feel wanted and embraced by you. We’ve discussed what you’ve been through with men. So for the fact you’re comfortable calling me that shows you’re really into me and that’s pretty cool lol.

You’re Happy - Your happiness and peace mean everything to me. Seeing you truly happy and at ease brings me a sense of fulfillment like nothing else. There’s nothing I wouldn’t do to protect your joy and ensure your heart stays light and your mind at peace

You’re Truthful - You’re truthful, even when it’s hard or doesn’t feel good, that’s something I deeply admire about you. Your honesty shows your strength, your integrity, and your commitment to being real, no matter the situation. It’s not always easy, but it’s one of the reasons I trust and respect you so much.

I Respect You - You surely don’t play, and I absolutely love how you carry yourself. Even though you’ve told me you just recently became this version of you, it’s hard to imagine you ever tolerating nonsense. The way you exude elegance and class is incredible you’re truly one of a kind.

Honestly, you’re in the top 1 percentile of women ever created, and I don’t say that lightly. You’re the perfect combination of strength, grace, and sophistication, and it’s one of the many reasons I’m so in awe of you.

Your Bravery - You’ve been in school your whole life, and choosing to take a year off to truly explore your passions and discover new ones is something I deeply admire. It takes so much courage to step away from what’s familiar and embrace the unknown in pursuit of what truly fulfills you.

I can’t wait to ride along on this journey with you, supporting you every step of the way. You inspire me in so many ways, and I want you to always know that you should never be afraid to follow your heart and passions. Whatever path you choose, I’v always got you.

I Love Your Feet LOL - I know your feet are something you’re insecure about, but I want you to know that I love every single piece of you, flaws, insecurities, and all. To me, your body is beautiful, every inch of it, because it’s a part of you. I see the perfection in what you might consider imperfections, and that’s what makes you even more special to me.

Your Friendship - Your friendship means the world to me. Beyond the love and romance we share, the foundation of our connection is built on the amazing friendship we have. You’re my safe space, my confidant, and the one I can always count on.

Your friendship is filled with understanding, laughter, support, and a bond that goes beyond words. It’s something I treasure deeply, and it’s one of the reasons why I know our connection is so special.

We’re Different - I love that we’re so different yet balance each other perfectly. You’ve been able to pull out a side of me that I didn’t even realize was buried deep inside, a part of me that is needed for me to be the man I desire to be.

At the same time, I love how I can help calm you down when you’re stressed or under pressure, grounding you in those moments. And watching you grow into your confidence, knowing and owning that you’re HER, that’s one of the most fulfilling things for me. Together, we bring out the best in each other, and that’s what makes us so special.

We’re Pretty Disgusting - I don’t even have to elaborate on this. Look at how we’ve been recently and look at what I’m doing lol

We’re Both Bougie And Humble - I love that we’re both bougie and humble, t’s the perfect balance. We can enjoy the finer things in life, appreciating luxury and elegance, but at the same time, we stay grounded and true to who we are.

It’s one of the reasons we click so well. We don’t take ourselves too seriously, but we know our worth and aren’t afraid to own it. Whether we’re dressing up for a night out or just enjoying the simple moments, it’s always authentic, and I wouldn’t want it any other way.

You Feel Like Home - Being with you gives me a sense of comfort and peace that I’ve never felt before. No matter what’s going on in the world or how chaotic life gets, when I’m with you, everything feels right. You’re my safe haven, my sense of belonging, and the person who makes every place and moment feel like home.

We’ve Figured It Out - Last but not least, we’ve been battle-tested. This journey hasn’t been easy, but look at us, we did it. We’ve weathered storms and come out stronger, and I truly believe we’ve figured out how to make this work. That means so much, especially in a world surrounded by failed and toxic relationships.

We rose above it all. We humbled ourselves, became servants of each other, and put love at the center of everything we do. We got out of our own way and committed to building something real, something lasting.

There’s nowhere else I’d rather be than right here with you. I’m so grateful we both listened to God’s guidance because I know He’s the one who brought us to this point.